The Lonely Lily: A Desert Gem Worth Growing Responsibly
Meet the lonely lily (Eremocrinum albomarginatum), a charming native wildflower that’s as unique as its melancholy name suggests. This little-known desert beauty might not be the showiest plant in your garden, but it has a quiet elegance that makes it a true treasure for native plant enthusiasts.


What Makes the Lonely Lily Special?
The lonely lily is a perennial forb—essentially a soft-stemmed herbaceous plant that comes back year after year. What sets it apart are its distinctive white-margined leaves that give the plant its scientific name albomarginatum, meaning white-edged. In spring, delicate white lily-like flowers emerge, creating a subtle but beautiful display against the desert landscape.
Where Does It Call Home?
This native beauty is found naturally in the southwestern United States, specifically in Arizona and Utah. It thrives in the harsh desert conditions of these regions, making it perfectly adapted to hot, dry climates and rocky soils.
Why You Might Want to Grow Lonely Lily
There are several compelling reasons to consider adding this native to your garden:
- True native status: Supporting local ecosystems by growing plants that belong in your region
- Drought tolerance: Once established, it requires very little water
- Pollinator support: The flowers attract native bees and other small pollinators
- Unique beauty: Its subtle charm adds character to rock gardens and desert landscapes
- Low maintenance: Perfect for gardeners who want beauty without constant care
A Word of Caution: Rarity Matters
Before you rush to plant lonely lily, there’s something important you need to know. This species has a vulnerable conservation status, meaning it’s at risk in the wild. With only 21 to 100 known occurrences and between 3,000 to 10,000 individuals remaining, every plant matters.
If you choose to grow lonely lily, please only purchase from reputable nurseries that propagate their own plants rather than collecting from wild populations. Never collect seeds or plants from natural areas.
Growing Conditions and Care
Lonely lily is suited for USDA hardiness zones 5-9, making it surprisingly adaptable beyond just desert regions. Here’s what it needs to thrive:
Ideal Growing Conditions
- Soil: Well-draining sandy or rocky soil is essential—this plant hates wet feet
- Sun exposure: Full sun to partial shade
- Water: Very drought tolerant once established; minimal watering needed
- Climate: Prefers dry climates with low humidity
Planting and Care Tips
Success with lonely lily comes down to mimicking its natural desert habitat:
- Plant bulbs in fall for spring blooms
- Ensure excellent drainage—consider raised beds or rock gardens
- Water sparingly, only during extended dry periods in the first year
- Avoid fertilizing, as rich soils can harm desert plants
- Mulch with gravel or small rocks rather than organic mulch
Perfect Garden Settings
Lonely lily shines in specific garden styles:
- Rock gardens: Perfect among boulders and gravel
- Desert/xeric gardens: Ideal companion for cacti and other succulents
- Native plant gardens: Essential for authentic southwestern landscapes
- Specialty collections: A conversation starter for rare plant enthusiasts
The Bottom Line
Lonely lily isn’t for every gardener or every garden. It requires specific conditions and responsible sourcing due to its rarity. However, if you have the right growing conditions and can source plants ethically, this native beauty offers a unique way to support local ecosystems while adding subtle charm to your landscape.
Remember, choosing native plants like lonely lily isn’t just about gardening—it’s about being a steward of our natural heritage. When grown responsibly, these plants can thrive in cultivation while taking pressure off wild populations. That’s a win-win worth celebrating!